Throughout this article we have guided you through the different possibilities that fetishes offer. If you think you can be a fetishist but you are still not sure, do not worry, we are going to give you some guidelines so that you can enjoy this part of your sexuality without fear.
Explore your sexuality and your fetishes from pleasure.
1. Above All, Peace Of Mind
Don’t feel bad about what you’re feeling. Being attracted to certain objects or to some part of the body (which is not usual in sexual relations) is perfectly normal.
2. Seek Information
Either because you have doubts or because you want to start living your fetish with more intensity, look for the necessary information in the right places. There are countless forums, blogs, articles … specialized in specific fetishes and in which your fetish will be treated from different perspectives.
3. Surround Yourself In The Right Environment
As with information, surrounding yourself with the right people who share your same fetishes and concerns can help you better understand what you’re feeling. In addition, there are local and national groups that organize meetings, workshops, gatherings of people who share the same fetish … Surround yourself with the right environment, they will understand you and will not judge you.
4. Communicate It Properly
Our recommendation is that you take the step of communicating it if you are sure to do so. It is important that you are comfortable with how you feel about your fetish. First you must accept it yourself and then want to share it in order to communicate it. Who knows? Perhaps you open a new world of experimentation that your partner had not heard of and it will accompany you from now on.
5. Do Not Judge Yourself
Fetishism is a sexual preference like any other. be hard on yourself. Having a sexual fetish is nothing bad or anything you should be ashamed of. We assure you that there are many more people than it may seem that they have emotions very similar to yours regarding certain parts of the body or objects that are out of the ordinary.
Erotic practices that are outside the norm, such as fetishism, have always been surrounded by false stigmas and unfortunate stereotypes. Either out of fear or simple misinformation, in the end we end up creating a false image of what it really means to have a fetish.
Try to understand what is happening to you and, once you get it, make your fetish add up.
Fetishism is not a deviation from behavior, on the contrary, it is a perfectly healthy practice that is compatible with a conventional sexual relationship. Use it to your advantage, and add that little extra excitement to your relationships.
The culture, the education we receive, or the experiences we have had in the past, can influence our mental map and trigger the chemistry of attraction. Make your fetish add up, don’t see it as a negative. Once you’ve gotten here, the best part is left: enjoy the process without fear.